Love Advice | 5 Signs You're With The Right Foreign Woman

Heed our love advice and learn the 5 signs that’ll tell you if you’re with the right woman or not.

Figuring out whether you are dating the right woman or not is already difficult as it is, but when dating foreign women, it would be twice as hard or maybe even more.

If only we had a magical crystal ball that could tell us who we’d end up with, it would definitely save a lot of people from heartache and having to waste their time with and for the wrong person. But in reality, the process of determining who our soulmates are doesn’t depend on magic, it relies on signs, logic, and intuition.

Logic and intuition, however, are solely up to you. What we can give you is a list of signs that would tell you whether you’re with the right foreign woman or not:

• She empowers you.

You will know that you are with the right woman when she invalidates your insecurities. She takes the bad with your good. Hence, she makes you feel more confident despite your imperfections. She fills in your deficiencies and never makes you feel less of a partner. She sings you praises, both in your presence and absence. The path to finding a foreign girlfriend who makes you feel whole is arduous and rough. So when you get lucky enough to find one, do yourself a favor and don’t let her go

• She makes use of conflicts to draw you closer rather than apart.

Conflicts are often viewed as an impediment in making a relationship work. But if you look at it from the right perspective, it may actually be an effective tool to gauge whether you’re dating the woman you ought to be with or not.

It’s in the face of adversities that commitment and sincerity truly show. Trials and tribulations are meant to draw you closer as a couple, not to tear you apart. If she thinks otherwise, then maybe you need to reconsider other options.

• You have more commonalities than there are differences.

Innate differences are inevitable, especially in interracial relationships. But you know you’re dating your potential soulmate when you share a lot of common interests and hobbies.

This is not to say, however, that just because you have glaring differences, that you are no longer meant to be with each other. It still depends on your and your partner’s willingness to adapt and embrace your differences and turn it into something positive. But you’ll definitely have a much easier time figuring things out with a woman whom you have a lot in common with.

• She prioritizes you over other things.

Genuine affection means going out of your way to make your significant other feel special and valued. Demanding the same from her isn’t a bad thing at all. Realistically though, there will be times when you need to take the back seat to give way to more pressing real-world priorities, which is completely fine. However, there is a difference between not being a priority sometimes and not being a priority at all.

One thing you have to look out for, especially in an international dating setup, is how she sets her priorities. If she is someone who will make time for you amidst her busy schedule, then you might just have found your soulmate.

• You never run out of things to talk about.

Poor communication is the root of conflicts in any kind of relationship. It happens more frequently in interracial dating due to the language barrier and cultural differences.

One of the other reasons for poor communication is when you run dry of things to talk about. But when you’re dating the right woman, you can be sure that everything either of you do, whether alone or together, is yet another topic that both of you can’t wait to tell each other about.

Falling in love is a gamble. You’ll never really know whether you’ll hit the jackpot or not. But just like any gamble, you’ll have to place a bet first in order to buy yourself a chance at hitting the jackpot.

No amount of love advice will be able to completely neutralize the possibility of you getting hurt in love. But at least, by logically analyzing your circumstances, using your intuition and taking note of this list, you can better your odds at finding the right foreign woman.